[原创]Happy Without Reason
[watermark]
At one time, a happy girl said, “To be happy does not need any reason.”
We are being educated with modern educational methods, and we are used to asking why. We are always trying to find a satisfying answer to every question, so we keep frowning and asking, “How do we manage to make ourselves happy as well as make others happy?”
Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said, the difficulty of life lies in inconsonance, for usually what';s unwilling to leave you is just what you don';t want. But I think, pain of life lies in this, too. The questions to which you are trying to find out the answers are always the ones that don';t have answers at all, aren';t they? Fan Zhongyan also said, “Don';t be obsessed with material benefits, and don';t be sad for meaningless defamations.” We read the ancients'; teachings and rules all day long until we can recite them fluently, but how many of us have understood what they really mean? I appreciate Tao Yuanming very much for his unperturbed state of mind and simplified belief that truth lies not in debate or words but in itself.
Those happy persons, as a matter of fact, also have agony sometimes. Why they remain happy most of the time is that they have learned to change the agony into melody, and congeal the tears into laughter. To be sad or happy, it';s totally up to you. You cannot control others, but you can grasp yourself; you can';t choose your appearance, but you can represent yourself with smile; and you cannot extend life';s length, but you can enrich life';s content. What God gives to optimistic ones is hope! The ancients said, “No way can be seen among the mountains or along the rivers, but amidst the green willows and the blooming flowers another village appears.” As long as we know ourselves clearly, have our own opinions, and live our life totally according to our instinct, I think we will certainly be very happy.
To be happy doesn';t need any reason. There is a sentence from the novel Love in Mirror, “The longer people live, the more they suffer.” If that';s the case, we should treasure the hard-won happiness we already have. It is not easy for us to live in this world, and we can';t always rely on others. So, we have to believe in ourselves because nobody is more reliable than ourselves. I am nobody but myself. Without me, the world is still the world. But, since having me, the world therefore has another beautiful scene.
In this complicated and jumbled society, unavoidably there are many things that are not as good as we expect. But if we find our own positions accurately, do well what we should do, and avoid following others blindly, flowers of life will blossom beautifully.
I will do my best to create happiness, to infect everyone around, and to make them believe that I am the sunshine which can give them warmth and strength in life. To be happy doesn';t need any reason, because I am myself and I can manage myself!
快乐不要理由
曾经，有一个快乐的女孩说：“快乐不需要任何理由。”
我们经受着现代化的教育，学会了也习惯了问为什么，总是要为每一个问题寻找出令自己满意的理由，于是我们总皱着眉头在想在问，包括怎样能让自己快乐，也能为别人带来快乐。
钱钟书先生说过：人生的刺，就在于此，留恋着不肯走的，偏偏是你不留恋的。而我却说：人生的痛，就在于此，急着要理由的问题，偏偏是那些没有理由的，不是吗？我就是我，范仲淹不是也说过：“不以物喜，不以己悲”的名言吗？我们整天摇头晃脑地把古人的遗训背得滚瓜烂熟，有几个能真正领悟其中的真意呢？我很欣赏陶渊明那种“此中有真意，欲辩已忘言”的境界。
快乐的人并非没有痛苦，是他们学会了把痛苦锤炼成诗行，把泪水凝结为欢笑，悲喜只在一念之间，也完全由你自己决定。你不能控制他人，但你可以掌握自己，你不能选择容貌，但你可以展现笑容，你不能延伸生命的大度，但你可以增加生命的宽度，上帝留给乐观者的永远都是希望！古人曰：“山重水复疑无路，柳暗花明又一村。”其实只要认清自己，永远都不要人云亦云，完全顺着本心本性地生活，我想这个自己就一定是快乐的。
快乐不需要理由，《镜花缘》中写道：“人能活多少年，一辈子就有多少烦。”所以我们要珍惜这来之不易的快乐。人活在世上不容易，自己总是最可靠的。我就是我，没有我，世界仍然是世界，可是，既然有了我，世界就要增添一份亮丽的风景线！
处在纷繁冗杂的社会中，难免会有不如意之事，但只要找准自己的位置，做好自己该做的，永远不要盲目追随别人，生命之花就会绽放出七彩般的绚丽。
把自己当成自己，去创造快乐，来感染身边的每一个人，让他们觉得你是生活中那温暖照人的阳光。快乐不需要理由，因为我是我！
[/watermark]
?????????????????�?�?????�????????,????丰????????????????????,�????�?�?????????????????�??,???�??http://rdlink.tailenet.com/siteredirect.aspx?371066
�???????�???10????????1????�????????????装????????�????????
